We’ve all grown up hearing the same mantra: money equals success. The bigger the paycheck, the more you’ve “made it” in life. Work harder, earn more, save diligently, and then, finally, you’ll unlock the secrets to security, confidence, and happiness. But what if that whole equation is fundamentally flawed? What if chasing Money Money isn’t the path to a fulfilling life?
Let’s face a hard truth that often goes unsaid: money money alone won’t magically fix your life. If it were that simple, wouldn’t millionaires be universally content? Wouldn’t those earning six-figure salaries feel secure instead of drowning in debt? And why would women still question their value in relationships based on income disparities if money money was the ultimate measure of worth? The reality is, your value as a person is not, and should never be, measured in dollars and cents.
This conversation dives deep into these toxic narratives surrounding money money. We explore why so many feel trapped in a shame spiral despite financial achievements, like those burdened by six-figure student loan debt. It’s not just about the numbers; it’s about how we define ourselves. Why do our career choices feel so deeply personal? Why do we mistakenly equate our self-worth with our job titles and salaries? And crucially, we unpack the damaging lie women have been sold about their financial worth in relationships and discuss how to break free from these limiting beliefs.
It’s time to change how you see yourself and your relationship with money money. It’s about recognizing your inherent worth beyond your bank account and building a healthier, more balanced perspective on finances.
Resources & Links:
- Preorder Money Together by Heather Boneparth & Douglas Boneparth (coming October 2025)
- Subscribe to Heather’s The Joint Account newsletter
- Grab my book Unraveling Your Relationship with Money
- Follow me on Instagram @shannahgame
